MENtal Strength
Insights for men about self-mastery, well-being and thriving relationships
These articles are intended to help men navigate the challenges of modern life, be their best, and build the relationships they want to have.
New video—My interview on the Men’s Talk Show
My interview with Daron and Wayne on the Men's talk show.
Discover What Your Anger is Telling You
Learn what your anger means. It's often a signal that one of your core values is being threatened. Learn how to use that insight to respond calmly and constructively, turning anger into an opportunity for growth and stronger relationships. Discover how to find peace of mind and stay true to your values, even in conflict.
Owning your Anger: A Path to Freedom, Not Suppression
Struggling to manage your anger? "Calming down" isn't the answer. In the first installment of our series on dealing well with anger, we explore conscious ownership—an approach that lets you allow the emotion without letting it control you. Learn how to experience anger peacefully, reclaim your focus, and notice how doing so changes your experience of anger.
4 Effective Tools for Dealing with ANGER
Popular advice like “just breathe” might calm you down, but it doesn’t solve the problem. In my new series, I’ll share four simple steps to help you deal with anger effectively—without suppressing it or losing control. Learn how to turn anger into a source of strength.
Weightlifting: A Tool to Confront Insecurities, Not Avoid Them
Many men struggle with insecurities despite feeling strong in the gym. This article deals with how weightlifting and hobbies can become tools to build emotional resilience. Learn how to confront, not avoid, your emotions and align your actions with your values for true strength.
How to say “No” —thinking differently about love and boundaries
This article reframes how think about boundaries so that they can be less frightening to set, and more effective. Many believe that the choice is either to be loving or have boundaries. This article presents a healthy alternative.
Men need to stop apologizing (for the most part)
Ever feel the urge to apologize just to keep the peace? Before you say 'I'm sorry,' ask yourself: Are you really in the wrong, or is something else at play? Discover when an apology is truly needed and when it's time to hold your ground.
Psychotherapy for Men: Accessibility and effectiveness
Most men seeking therapy aren't dealing with issues that are exclusive to their gender. However, they still need a therapist who can empathize with how men uniquely experience these issues.
Stop "Paying” her to Mistreat You
Feeling mistreated in your relationship? Learn how to stop "paying" for mistreatment by changing your response. Set boundaries, manage your emotions, and reinforce positive behaviors to create a healthier, more respectful dynamic. Discover practical steps to influence positive change in your relationship.
Advice I Won’t Give My Clients, Part 2
The second installment of advice that this therapist would give you, if I were responsible for how you live your life.