MENtal Strength
Insights for men about self-mastery, well-being and thriving relationships
These articles are intended to help men navigate the challenges of modern life, be their best, and build the relationships they want to have.
Candid advice from a men’s psychotherapist
Raw truths and game-changing advice for men's mental well-being in this no-nonsense article by a men’s psychotherapist. These aren’t things you HAVE to do… but if you want a better life, and better relationships, they are good steps to start with.
The best-kept secret about meditation
You might know something about meditation, but there’s a secret to it. Even though I’m sharing it, it’ll remain a secret to many. Learn why consistent meditation is one of the best investments you can make in your life.
Overcoming political derangement: It starts with me (and you)
In a world plagued by "Trump derangement" and polarized political views, it is crucial to respond with rationality and compassion, not only for the sake of societal harmony but also for our own mental well-being. By taking responsibility for our mental health through self-reflection, empathy, and cultivating understanding, we can strive towards a more inclusive and compassionate society.
Navigating Darkness, Embrace Truth: If I were Rust Cohle’s Therapist
In HBO's True Detective, Rust Cohle's mandated therapy session is daunting due to his skepticism and complex psyche. This article explains why my approach, focused on authenticity and embracing one's true self, is effective even with skeptical clients like Rust.
A Healthy and Wise Response to Anti-male Attitudes
How men can deal well with anti-male attitudes, while focusing on their personal growth. Explore mythological insights, reject reactive misogyny, and learn practical strategies for fostering constructive dialogue and supportive networks. Empower yourself by embracing your identity and journey towards individuation.
How men can overcome their fear of women’s emotions
Many men get scared when women express emotions. This is one of the reasons why many struggle to communicate well in their relationships. This article discusses how this came to be, and what to do about it.
Stop arguing—communicate effectively in your relationship
A common belief is that it's weak to let things be when someone says something upsetting, and that to be strong, we need to keep fighting for what we think is right. Absolutely, we need to state our positions. It's strong and healthy to give voice to our feelings and wants. But it's also strong to allow ourselves to pause once we've done so, even when we don't get the immediate response we desire.
How to respond to “weaponized incompetence”
If you’re concerned that your partner’s incompetence is a ploy to get out of doing shared tasks, it’s not a good idea to voice that accusation. In this article, we talk about to do instead.
An apology to men, on behalf of therapists
Why men face an uphill battle when it comes to finding a therapist who can really help them. And why men are great at therapy when they find the right therapist.
Her mental load, and what you can do about it
The solution to a partner’s overwhelm isn’t obvious. It’s not just about “doing more” so that she can do less. It’s about taking action to improve the whole situation.